Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner celebrated Christmas together for the first time since their split, focusing on family time with their children, Violet, Seraphina, and Samuel. An insider noted their commitment to co-parenting,

Despite reports that Jennifer Lopez wanted Ben Affleck to spend the holidays with she and her children, the Academy Award winning actor and director spent

Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck spent Christmas together with their three children, Violet, 19, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12, according to an inside source. "It's all for the kids," the source tells PEOPLE.